Are you seeking to get married to gain approval, acceptance or status? A marriage is a bad source of all of this. Only God is the true source of a secured identity.

Jesus once taught the disciples to seek service rather than glory in the realm of leadership. The same truth applies in our marriages. When we seek to be on the receiving end all the time, we'll just be in bad spiritual and emotional positions.

Having the same vision it means that your heart beats for the same thing. The way how you are called to invest your life should be the same .

This means that you love each other with a real love which is: "patient, kind, does not envy, it does't boast, is't proud. It does't dishonor others, is't self-seeking, is't easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs, not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth,It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres, Love never fails".